IT'S A SAD SAD DAY....

I am totally freaking out right now...I work on a laptop... and I have used up almost ALL my space. My husband is a computer geek... well he finished building our server last night and he told me that he created a drive just for all my scrapbooking stuff so I can take it off my machine and keep it on the server. I was like great!! SO, I copied and pasted my entire "my documents" folder, which contained ALL my scrapbooking stuff. After it was finished copying I went into my C drive and started deleting all my stuff. Well, I got a window that popped up that said files too big for recycle bin do you want to delete permantely ... so i clicked ok thinking... i dont need this stuff anymore.

After that was finished I logged onto the server and clicked on my scrapbooking stuff and NOTHING WAS THERE. ALL my stuff was gone... it had not copied. So I went back to my machine and there was nothing there of course, I just deleted it.

I have LOST EVERYTHING that I had... all my scrap pages I made of my kids, their photos, my scrap designs, MY NEW KIT I WAS GOING TO PUT UP TODAY, ALL my purchased graphics, ALL my purchased commercial use products and the ones I have collected... EVERYTHING... I just want to cry... I can not believe that I have nothing... I am at ground zero... all I have left is whatever plug ins, brushes, actions I have installed in Photoshop...

I am using PC Inspector File Recovery and it recovered ALL of it... I was like YES.. thank you GOD. Well, after I restored it only recovered the folder and none of the files in the folders... so I am back to square one... I am so livid and I dont know what to do.... any suggestions would help...